Marriage is the legal certificate or relationship which gives a permission to stay together for a boy and a girl. The marriage could be of two types i.e. love and arrange. Now-a-days mostly it is found in practise is love marriage. The arrange marriage is lessly found. In these two marriage it is found that arranged married couple lives more happily than love married couple. Since the love between two spouse's takes place before marriage there is a more chance of misunderstanding among themselves. They begin to argue on each other with small reasons. And they curse themselves saying "How could i have been so fool? Why i didn't listen to my parents?" So, this leads them to divorce. While in arrange marriage, the couples will be new and the following days they begin to understand and love each other. So, this marriage seems to be more successful and happily lived.
The bad information was the idea that the 'in love' obsession would last forever. We should have known better. Whether we agree with the conclusion that those of us who have fallen in love and out of love will likely agree that the experience does catapult us into emotional orbit unlike anything else we have experienced. When we come down from the emotional obsession we often wonder why we did those things. When the wave of emotions subsides and we come back to the real world where our differences are illuminated, how many of us have asked,"Why did we get married? We don't agree on anything."
Many of us..... are trained to analyse problems and create solutions. We forget that marriage is a relationship, not a project to be completed or a problem to solve.
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