Friday, September 28, 2012

Feeling good together is essential

Friday, September 28, 2012

1.       Compliment
It’s the little thing that really counts!
In a relationship, complimenting your partner is essential! Try to be generous with compliments. Let your partner know how crazy you are about him\ her.
A compliment always helps your partner feel more loved and secure in your relationship. Pay attention to all the nice things your partner does and let him know you appreciate them.
Always keep in mind that a simple compliment brings happiness to both giver and receiver.
    2.       Communication
Speak the same language!
When working on improving your relationship you should try communicating more with your partner. Try to talk honestly and openly about everything and anything and in the same time avoid shutting one another one.
Always pay attention to the word you use and the tone of your voice. Try to be positive and cheery.  Try to show your beloved that you are listening and truly interested.
3.       Having fun
Feeling good together is essential!
Having fun together is essential to keeping your love alive. Laughing together is a great way to get closer and strengthen your relationship. Have fun in any activity you do together, whether it’s doing the laundry or watching a movie. Be playful. Be fun to be with and don’t forget to do something different each time around!
4.       Sex
Sex is important!
Being sexually compatible and knowing what the others needs and desire are, is a blessing for any relationship.
If you feel the passion is not as high it’s time to bring novelty in your sex life. Talk openly about these matters. Find out each other’s fantasies and sexual preferences and loosen up. Justly forgets about the outside world when you are alone in bed. Focus on each other’s pleasure!
Rewards will inevitably follow.
5.       Independence
Respect your partner’s privacy and independent.
In all relationships, everyone needs sometime alone. Give each other some space. We all need our time to focus on our selves. Something’s are meant to be done together, but do not take it personally when your partner feels that she or he needs some privacy.
Try not being too noisy! Do not dig around in your partners things just because you are really curious. Respect their history and try not to nose into their past more than he or she allows you.
Make sure that you give your partner the independence she or he needs and let him or her have other friends beside common friends. Let your partner get involve in different activities without being jealous.
6.       Socializing
Keep yourself in touch with the world.
It doesn’t matter if you just move to a new place or you live since the beginning of your relationship, socializing with other people is very important.
Do not let your jealousy isolate your partner from friends and family. Get out more and have fun with your friends is a great way to escape relationship routines and dull moments.
7.       Respect
Respect keeps you together!
Respect is the key to mutual understanding and loving relationship!
If your partner shows the respect that you deserve, you feel valued and free to be yourself. You should not feel intimidated or control; by your lover. When you argue, do it constructively! Admit when you are wrong and find solutions by talking openly.
Respecting your partner means accepting your partner means accepting their opinions, feelings and friends. Never force your partner into doing something he or she doesn’t like and always accept it if they changes their mind about things.
8.       Fights
Fight fair! If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your partner!
When having relationship conflicts the solution is to find a way out TOGETHER. When you feel things are getting heated up over an issue, find time to talk it through. Remember to always stick to the subject: never being up a mistake of past!
Don’t insult one another or call names. Try to avoid you using words like “you always…”, “you never…” Be truthful, realistic and remember to listen carefully to what the other has to say!
     9.    Quality time together
Take off: TOGETHER!
In a relationship, spending quality time together is crucial. You can meet your friends, dine out or cuddle while watching a movie the fact that the two of you are together and you do things that both make of you happy is very important in order to deepen your bond.
Plan a nice holiday even a weekend getaway where you can enjoy some privacy. Leave all your problems at home. There you will be less stressed and you will have the time to focus only on each other!
10.   Decode
Communicate with no words!
When in a relationship, two people begin understanding each other’s body language. You should know by now what all the small expression and gestures mean. If you pay enough attention to them you will discover your partners true feelings at any stage, without them having to explain in words.
You can read your lovers mind just by being attentive to his\her gestures.


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